To Tip, or Not to Tip?
Hey there, friends! This is a question I get asked a lot and have seen many debates about online: Do you tip your wedding photographer?
I have a poll above to get your personal vote on the matter. Once you have read the blog, please take a moment to vote!
First let's go over people we typically gift a tip to.
- Hair Stylists,
- Nail Techs,
- Lash Techs,
- Servers/Waitresses,
- Uber Drivers,
- Bar Tenders,
- Valet,
- Casinos,
- Hotels,
- Spas,
- Concierge Services,
- DJ's,
- Food Vendors
and many, many more.
Some people argue that since service providers like hair stylists and techs who work for an employer only make a small portion of what the service costs, it's essential to leave a tip to supplement their income. However, when it comes to those who own their businesses, the lines can become a bit blurred.
Many customers believe that tipping the owner of a business isn't necessary because they set their own prices and directly benefit from the full payment. However, if the owner is providing an exceptional service or going above and beyond, many still choose to tip as a gesture of appreciation.
Let's define the word "Tip": A Tip, or Gratuity, is a sum of money customarily given by a customer to certain service sector workers, such as those in hospitality, for the service they have performed, in addition to the basic price of the service. Tipping by definition is voluntary – at the discretion of the customer. Although voluntary, tips are an important factor for some workers' income.
So back to our main question, do you tip your photographer?
I believe it's a personal choice and can vary based on individual preferences and circumstances. Tipping your photographer can be a way to show appreciation for their hard work and the special moments they've captured, but it is entirely up to the customer.
As a photographer, I work hard to capture your special moments and often go above and beyond to provide you with beautiful, lasting memories. While tipping may not be mandatory, it is a thoughtful gesture that acknowledges my contribution to your event.
I feel any tip given should be a gift. I don't think tips should be "expected," per se, but if you are satisfied with a service and the person did a great job overall, you should tip them. I do not agree with tipping just because you feel "obligated," as that doesn't inspire people to try or work hard. For those who rely on tips as part of their income, I still believe it should be an earned tip. I also do not like "included percentage tips" that we are sometimes obligated to pay, especially if the service provided was poor.
That said, in my opinion, I think tipping is always a personal decision and can vary based on your satisfaction with the service and your budget. This goes for any service provider, not just photography. What are your thoughts on the matter? Vote and let me know!
All my best,
Mary B.


